
Doing it in public is gross but a lot of ppl do, so I guess I'm in the minority there. This is a pretty sad way to have cybersex, I think. Otherwise you might find yourself knockin boots with a furry or a smurf, or worse, getting raped by someone unattractive, lol! People will just walk up to you and grab the companion ball, thinking that your offering yourself up to anyone! So bring a friend when you go exploring the public sex places, and when u try a pose ball, make sure they try the companion one right away. You'll have to do your thing in public, which is not my cup of tea - and be sure you don't start experimenting with the pose balls on your own. If you haven't got any Lindens, there are many places rated "mature" where you'll find beds and pose balls all over the place. (But it's OK if you're both the same sex they can be adjusted easily.) You can buy them at many of the shops in fact, you can buy whole kits, like a bed with an entire menu of animations. Residents call them "pose balls." Blue is for boys, and pink is for girls, hehe. How it works is simple: there are scripts embedded in objects, usually coloured spheres. This might strike you as the holy Grail of cybersex, but stay with me here: it's not all that. But SL adds another dimension where you and your partner (or partners, lol) can animate your avatars, and watch them do exactly what your imagining. The basic idea is like IRC: you chat your way through it and use your imagination. But in Second Life, there's more, like animated visuals, some of which are quite pornographic, I can tell you.

Now, I'm an IRC junkie from way back, so I know a thing or two about cybering, believe me. You'll be curious, and prolly tempted to jump in right away, and I bet you'll be surprised by what it's like in this strange virtual environment. Whatever brings you to SL, you'll soon find that sex is everywhere. That was months ago, and I still haven't seen more than a handful of the buildings". She says to me, "I joined Second Life to admire the architecture, but I started cybering within twenty minutes of arriving. Column One of my girlfriends is so funny.
